Resisting Dots
Posted by RobinApr 13
I’m not doing two dot-posts in a row, although this is going to be a dot-post without the dots. It’s been a disjointed kind of weekend.
Curse you, May 10th. So many things are happening in St. Louis that weekend, and I keep saying no because we’ll be going to my hometown for Mother’s Day. But now there’s an offer I can’t refuse on behalf of my daughter. Dan Zanes, who she loves like I love Wilco, will finally be coming to St. Louis. Today, I figure out a way to take her to see him while spending the weekend in my hometown. Got a cloner I can borrow? No longer an issue, as both shows are already sold out, goddammit. I should check these things before I go on crazy wild goose chases to make plans.
Speaking of Clara Jane, why won’t she sleep later than 7 AM? This is getting quite old. This weekend has, blessedly, been somewhat more peaceful than the rest of the week has been. We were at the bookstore on Friday, and she was acting like one of the apocalypse horsemen. While I issued orders through gritted teeth, one of the sweet storytime ladies patted me on the shoulder and said, “You are so patient with her.” I said, “Thank you, but I don’t feel very patient right now.” I guess the fact that my behavior appears patient is more important than the fact that I can feel my brain melting from the white heat of the impatience that dwells within me. Perhaps I’m doing something right.
Then again, I’ve felt like hell all weekend. I think I have repressed impatience poisoning.
Yesterday I watched that episode of Oprah about puppy mills. Oh my God. I’m not stranger to the world of puppy mills and their ramifications. My little smiley Murphy is the product of a puppy mill, rescued in a raid. My parents have a yellow Lab they rescued from an Amish “breeder” not dissimilar from the ones investigated on the show. Now, you’d be hard-pressed to find me spouting from the Church of Oprah. I record the show every day and might watch one episode of every ten, if it’s a subject that I think is important, like this one. Sobbing, I was. Sobbing and hugging my poor little puppy mill rescued Murphy. Today, I’m going to make dog biscuits and cat toys until my fingers bleed to raise money for the Greater Akron Humane Society. Order some. If you don’t want to order, go watch some of that damn Oprah footage. It’ll change your mind.
Why isn’t my child wearing clothes? Why have I consumed nothing but coffee and cookies today? Why is everything happening on May 10th? I have so many questions that will never be answered.
8 comments
Comment by Kathy on April 13, 2008 at 1:25 pm
I saw that episode of Oprah, too. It’s absolutely awful, the conditions those poor dogs are kept in.
Comment by allison on April 13, 2008 at 2:04 pm
Dan Zanes’s little brother Stewart was a good friend of my old roommate. He was about 24 pounds, and could always be counted on to get wasted and crazy at our house.
Never met Dan, though.
Comment by Venus/Mel on April 13, 2008 at 8:18 pm
Does Clara Jane have curtains in her room? Are they light in color? Perhaps the light is waking her up. Today I had issues sleeping in late because the light was tricking me making me think I was in bed til far later then I was. Maybe you could try blacking out her windows temporarily but hanging up some dark bedsheets over the windows? See if it works?
Comment by Kate on April 13, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Oprah is the queen of emotional manipulation. I swear, I saw C. Vivian Stringer on there the other day and was weeping……and then I left the room and was cursing Oprah for making me into a pile of mush.
However, I am sure seeing anything on puppy mills, on Oprah or not, would result in the same sad reaction.
Sign me up for some biscuits!!
If you don’t leave town for May 10th – you must join us for my graduation celebration at Imo’s….okay, you hate Imo’s – but I will buy you beer.
Comment by beqi on April 14, 2008 at 6:51 am
Twer Grove Farmers’ Market Season opener is May 10th, too. But that’s in the morning, so maybe that doesn’t count.
Comment by Michelle on April 14, 2008 at 9:10 am
I think I have repressed impatience poisoning….
So that’s what I have! Thanks for giving it a name
Comment by Courtney Watson on April 14, 2008 at 9:26 am
Ooh Beqi thanks for reminding me about the market!
I let my impatience flow everywhere. I can’t handle it. ESPECIALLY with really ignorant people. This may be why the clump of hair on the bottom of my tub every morning is getting bigger…
A female Lex Luthor would be hot, no?
Comment by Amy in StL on April 14, 2008 at 10:50 am
Ugh, Oprah is banned from my house. I don’t understand why we can’t make puppy mill illegal. Really. I know some responsible dog breeders, and I’m sure their organizations would help draft legislation to allow breeding to continue but outlaw puppy mills.
FYI, I haven’t bought any biscuits because Oscar is on a special allergy diet. Currently we’re trying Salmon and rice diet, he was all rashy and itchy with lamb. I fear I may have to move on though, he’s been itchy again lately.