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November 11, 2005
Girl Stuff in a Guy's World
I can't remember how much I've talked about this, but a little over a month ago I was offered a regular column in a new(ish) local publication, the Arch City Chronicle. Of course, my immediate reaction is to not mention anything work-related on my blog because people lose jobs for shit like that. I keep having to remind myself that 1)my blog helped me get this job (with much thanks to Diatriber, and 2)the magazine has its own blog and is therefore rather blog-friendly.
So, anyway, I'm writing restaurant reviews for the print edition of the magazine. And yes, that's just as much fun as it sounds. Last night I got paid to go to Riley's Pub and eat pizza and drink beer with my editor, Kara and Tom. Nice work if you can get it.
The meeting with Tom was unexpected and cracked me up. He was there to take photos. I mentioned something about having a blog, and he asked for the name. I told him and saw the recognition wash over his face. It amazes me when that happens. Well, all three times it's happened. I think what surprises me even more is that all three times I've had my blog recognized in the offline world, it's been by men.
I'm amazed that men read this. I mean, isn't this one of those "mommy blogs" that only other mommies read? When I see a male name in the comments, more often than not it's spam. Although I do immensely enjoy the non-spam boys who comment.
I mentioned the blog in context of another project I haven't talked about much online. I'm currently in the process of doing some heavy editing of the first 15 months of the blog, turning it into something cohesive and hopefully publishable. If you've been reading since the beginning, you'll know that a great deal of what I wrote pertained to my adjustment to motherhood (which did not go smoothly), along with the post-partem depression and anxiety that damn near did me in. At which point my editor asked, "What, exactly, is post-partem depression? What causes it? You hear a lot about it, but not much about what it's really like."
Hm. My boss just asked me to tell him about the time I went plum stark raving nutters. This should be good for my career. So, over pizza and beer, let's talk about 32 hours of labor! And getting sliced and diced! And not being able to drag my crazy ass out of the chair!
Is it any wonder I'm such a successful career woman who commands the adoration of men everywhere?
Posted by Robin at November 11, 2005 02:29 PM
Comments
No, this most definitely is NOT one of those "mommy blogs." You know why? Because you discuss things other than your child--you have an identity and life of your own that exists separately from your identity as a mother, and you write about that as well. To me, the mommy blogs are really only attractive to other mommies because they rarely discuss anything other than their children, and they often think people are interested in reading about projectile pooping and similar things. You write about your child in an interesting manner, first, and second, you write about your life outside your role as a mom in an interesting manner. That's the difference, in my opinion.
Posted by: L at November 11, 2005 09:49 PM
I've always thought my blog could benefit from more explosive diarrhea.
Always good to see you, L. Let me know when winter break starts so we can do something! Keep Dec. 17th free if you can.
Posted by: Poppy at November 12, 2005 10:21 AM
I will absolutely keep that free, it doesn't look like we've got anything else going on. (Thank God! It's been one load of craziness after another lately.)
I think it starts Dec. 16th or something, but I'll get back to you on that. Because I would love to do something. Something that doesn't involve reading about political economy. Or writing long-winded papers. Or sitting on my ass nonstop. Sigh. :)
Posted by: L at November 13, 2005 04:06 PM




